A love poem from the very center of life—from that mid-stage that is so often rushed and undefined, but is memorably chronicled in the poems of Sharon Olds.
True Love
In the middle of the night, when we get up
after making love, we look at each other in
complete friendship, we know so fully
what the other has been doing. Bound to each other
like mountaineers coming down from a mountain,
bound with the tie of the delivery-room,
we wander down the hall to the bathroom, I can
hardly walk, I hobble through the granular
shadowless air, I know where you are
with my eyes closed, we are bound to each other
with huge invisible threads, our sexes
muted, exhausted, crushed, the whole
body a sex—surely this
is the most blessed time of my life,
our children asleep in their beds, each fate
like a vein of abiding mineral
not discovered yet. I sit
on the toilet in the night, you are somewhere in the room,
I open the window and snow has fallen in a
steep drift, against the pane, I
look up, into it,
a wall of cold crystals, silent
and glistening, I quietly call to you
and you come and hold my hand and I say
I cannot see beyond it. I cannot see beyond it.
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Very touching.
Such a normal yet beautiful picture.
I cannot see beyond either…
and sometimes I forget to celebrate.
Thanks for this vivid reminder….
We will certainly miss this time in life when it’s over….
I hope you’ll keep writing and showing us the beauty in the other times too!
How intense yet calm is Sharon Olds’ painting of
married love, family love and yes, sexual love.
Her images of thread, mountains and veins of
minerals are brilliant. Thank you for this poem.
I love this poem about after. We talk about sex , the before and during..but rarely the after. It is perhaps the most profound part that it can just break us down, remove any barriers to really feeling connected.
Thanks for the vivid imagery, the connection of proecreation to passion so well done.
A woman expressing love for her husband–surely a rare idea among modern poets. Way to go, Ms. Olds!